THE STORY

 My dad has a strong personality and early on I developed a habit of diminishing my needs to better serve his. As such, I have behavior patterns that emerge when I meet people similar to him. I was almost 30 when I finally realized this and rebelled against him, and that part of me died which was painful but ultimately left me with more freedom and independence, which I cherish.

”Harmonious Resistance” is that first point of rebellion and it presents a cold, clinical view of relationships. A warning for those in similar situations who have not yet become aware of them.

There's no clear answer for this. I also realize co-dependence creates incredibly strong bonds, and the common language of healthy vs non-healthy fails to capture the nuance of these situations.

Personally I strive to be self-aware enough to notice my own patterns which helps me move forward and develop healthier relationships.