THE STORY

It's hard to tell someone that you need to be alone in order to love yourself, which is necessary before you can love them.

It's necessary for me to communicate this need, and to understand myself well enough to state it truthfully.

Boundaries are important, goes back to Harmonious Resistance. You must draw your lines, draw them bright and wide. It's also been hard for me because maybe it's limiting love and it's possible to find this meditation with another, a true union of two people. I haven't figured this one out yet. But happy to report I'm making progress.

You know what I'm talking about though. When you're out with your buddies - you gotta make that call.